Youth Academy Football Parents
I have been wanting to write about our boys and their football progress for a while. I had a bit of a light bulb moment last week when the oil light flashed up on the car dashboard. Turns out it wasn’t oil it was the service light. I checked the service book and we have driven 14,000 miles since our last service in July. Neither of us use the car much for commuting to work so this is mostly football training and games mileage. Serious commitment but what’s it really like to be Youth Academy Football parents?
As you probably know I have 3 boys, Dylan is 9, Josh is 7 and Jack is 4. Firstly Dylan, he is signed up academy player for Cambridge United. He joined the U8 pre -academy squad in January 2016, he trained with them once a week and played a few games and did so well that he was invited to join the academy. The elite squad of 14 boys. The regime is full-on and requires much commitment from us parents.
Every week we have training on Friday, Saturday and Monday with a game on a Sunday. Training is a 45-60 minute and 40-mile drive away from where we live in Knebworth. The games are normally an hour drive away, Barnet, Luton, Peterborough, Leyton Orient etc. Then in the holidays or occasionally on a Saturday there might be a bigger game, Dylan has played Arsenal, Norwich, Leicester and Man City recently, almost always at the away venue.
It’s a huge commitment that required much time at the weekends and much mileage in the car. We are spending around £150 per month on petrol.
Josh was spotted before Dylan with a well-timed free-kick that struck goal in front of a few scouts when he was 5! So, Josh joined the pre-academy 18 months ago, and goes to training once a week. Training in a different location to Dylan of course. Plus, he has games every 2-3 weeks on a Saturday. Josh has now played against teams like Fulham, Aston Villa and Watford. Josh is on the path to the academy as well at Cambridge. If he makes it life becomes a bit simpler as both boys will be training in the same location. Although games in potentially different locations on a Saturday/Sunday!
The past 7 days alone have been busy
- Last Tuesday Josh had a tournament in Newmarket
- Wednesday Josh had a training day with his pre-academy boys in Cambridge.
- Thursday and Friday nothing.
- Saturday was training in the morning for Dylan in Cambridge, then we went to Cambridge in the afternoon to watch the first team Cambridge United game where Josh met the team, manager, chief executive and played on the pitch at half time.
- Sunday was a game in Southend for Dylan.
- Monday was football training for Dylan in Huntingdon
- Tuesday today is an indoor football tournament for Dylan in central Cambridge
It’s totally worth it
Both our boys love it, they can’t wait for their next training session. They are dedicated to it and so are we. We want to support them every step of the way in their footballing journey. You never know they could make it and we want to have done everything in our capability to support them.
The costs for a year of Youth Academy Football
The coaching and games with Cambridge are all free of charge. Cambridge are one of the only division 2 football teams with an academy with many full-time high quality members of staff. This was a big part of the reason of choosing Cambridge with their caring, professional and considered approach.
We have paid £150 for a full kit which includes training kit, tracksuit, winter coat, match kit, bag.
I have also paid £150 to sponsor Dylan, so Mrs Mummypenny gets a mention in the football program every week. This is not a required payment though.
We need three pairs of football boots that maybe need to be changed every 6 months. Boots needed are indoor trainers, metal studs for wet, muddy grass and moulded studs for harder ground. We get our boots from Pro:Direct and cost around £30 to £40 per pair and try to get them in the sale when we can. A cost of £150 for the year per child.
And then the petrol cost of £150 for 9 months of the year. £1350. The additional cost of servicing every 6 months rather than 12 months is £200 ish. The club do run a mini bus to games but we always like to be there!
It is costing us a lot of money- maybe £2000 per year.
The Time commitment
As you can see there is also a huge time commitment from us parents and that would be a challenge if we had regular employed non-flexible jobs. With me being self-employed I can choose my hours so can be driving off to Cambridge at 4pm this afternoon with Dylan. Hubby can also leave work early and take time off regularly. But it is a balancing act every week once we know where we are going to be.
An honest view of Youth Academy Football
There you have it the reality of being a parent to an academy football player, the real honest view. And we love it. Watching your boys play a game of football is the most incredible feeling of pride ever, so much bigger than if you were to achieve something yourself. And watching them grow into amazing players so happy and confident it is the best feeling ever.
My final point is about preparing the boys for it all ending. It is extremely likely that it will all end. Maybe next year, maybe in 5 years time, maybe it wont end. But the boys have to be prepared for this possibility so we often talk about contracts not being renewed and things ending if the club so decides. But long may they continue to love it.